The Question:
Does prayer really change anything? I’ve wondered about this, because if God really wants to do something, He’ll go ahead and do it anyway, won’t He? He’s not going to wait until I get around to praying about it.
The Answer:
God supposedly knows how everything is going to come out. If this is true, prayer doesn’t matter because everything is already fixed and can’t be changed.
God supposedly has a plan for your life which is perfect. If you pray for some other outcome that goes against the plan, you’re being disrespectful of God by saying his plan is not perfect.
God has promised salvation to those who are faithful and believe in him. Praying for something other than what God has planned for you is the same as saying you don’t trust God or accept his plan or judgement.
When I was young I used to thank God every night for not killing me and my family and friends and asked him to continue not doing this. I was in no hurry to get to heaven, which didn’t sound like such a great place compared to my life as a kid at all. I also praised him effusively for his kindness and goodness, in the hopes that he would give me a better life in exchange for the flattery, which was mostly not sincere because I was scared to death of him because I’d read the Bible and saw all the times when he was a real dick to people, often for no good reason. So, while I was in the midst of thanking him for various things like trees and sunlight and air a voice in my head said, wait a minute, he’s all-powerful and all-knowing, so doesn’t he already know I’m grateful for him not killing me, and doesn’t he also know that me buttering him up is just bullshit motivated not by the love I’m professing but out of fear, and why does he need buttering up anyway, what is he, some kind of whiny, immature baby? Why would a supernatural, all-powerful entity need to hear me say anything at all when he already knows everything that goes on in my head? isn’t he just going to just go ahead and do whatever he damn well pleases, like when he drowned everybody on the fucking planet on account of he didn’t like the way his own creation turned out? Why would I pray to such a capricious, unstable monster anyway? Right after all of these thoughts popped into my head I thought, oh shit, he heard all that, now I’m really in for it, but, wait a minute, he knew all of that was in my head already whether I thought it out loud or not, so there’s no escaping his wrath, but….wait a minute, does any of this make any sense, or is it just such a bunch of conflicting nonsense that….is it possible…is all nonsense? It was at that point I began to think, I’m praying to nobody. Nobody is there. It’s all…in my head. And at that point, thanks to this sudden and unexpected insight, I was done praying.
So yes, prayer does change things. In my case, it led to a disbelief in God.